Catching Up…

So last weekend was a packed and crazy one!! Auntie Em met me downtown for some major shopping fun…MAC’s first roll-out of their holiday palettes! It is a fall/winter tradition for us and this year did not disappoint. It was so wonderful to have some solid girltime with my SISTER…that’s what she is, in every way. After we bought up the joint (not really, honey, that’s a JOKE), we had a quick lunch and rode the train home together. Here’s a sampling of what I brought home:

Dazzleglass in “Jingle-Jangle” (Thinking about getting another of these, the sparkle is AMAZING!)

Nail Lacquer in “$$$$$ Yes” (My new favorite color!)

When I got home, we regrouped and headed over to the Petkus house. Becky and Bret invited us over for dinner and we ended up bringing Charlie with us, which worked out perfectly because she always has an amazing time over there. I can’t tell you how great it is for my soul to spend time with this family. I don’t think I’ve laughed that hard in a long time. They are such a treasure to us!! Check out this pic of Charlie in the middle of Petkus WWF:

Rained Out

Ms. Megan and I were SO excited to take the girls to a pumpkin patch today with our mom’s group. We were all ready to go, dressed and all, when at the last minute the trip got cancelled due to rain. So sad. I had a moment where I thought I might still try to go, but then looked outside and realized that a muddy pumpkin patch probably wouldn’t be the MOST fun. So, we made the best of this rainy day and hung out at her place instead. She introduced me to honeycrisp apples…Um, WHY have I never tried these delicious treats??

The girls did very well with each other…there were only a couple scuffles over snacks. Charlie is just so darn territorial when it comes to snacks and it drives me crazy! If I have to tell her not to push another child one more time…Other than that, they giggled a lot and took a ton of turns down the slide. It’s really fun to listen to she and her friends “talk” to each other and have whole conversations, even if we aren’t sure what they are saying.

I am so bummed about the pumpkin patch, though…this is the second time we’ve been rained out of doing something festive. Maybe Charlie and I will make a trip out to Goebbert’s some day this month if we wake up and have nothing to do and the weather decides to cooperate. Hopefully she’ll get to wear her Halloween “Hanna” (Andersson) dress more than once.

Looks like Daddy will have to be the pumpkin-gatherer this time!!


My Maid called in Sick Today

You can’t tell from this picture, but Charlie is a whirling dervish today. I think if I have to clean up one more mess my head might explode. I often wonder how “together” moms do it. Do any of you feel like you can’t stay on top of everything? I sure do. I also find I’d rather surf the web for Christmas ideas than do laundry. Which might explain why Charlie is out of socks. Sorry, Charlie…

Penguins!

You know that my child is obsessed with penguins, right?? I mean, OBSESSED. “Happy Feet” is her favorite movie. She drags her sad, threadbare “Kenga” around, no matter that it has remnants of avocado on it. There is a candy store near Damen and Belmont that has a huge, human-sized penguin in front of it, to which she screams at every time we drive by, which is a lot.

Did I tell you about our new rule for Christmas? Apparently, Vann mentioned this to me last year but I just don’t remember…but a mom I know told me that they give their kids 3 gifts a piece, just like baby Jesus was given by the Magi. I heard this and thought it was SO cool, and actually selfishly, really good for me, as we all know I struggle with limits when it comes to gift-giving.

So, from here on out, Charlie (and Baby B) will receive 3 gifts from us, not including her “Santa”, of course. We always had Santa and stockings when I was growing up (who am I kidding, we still do, and I’m 31!) so that is a very important tradition to me. I introduced stockings to Vann the first Christmas we were married, and I think he would admit he feels great pressure trying to come up with creative ideas (especially under a $100 budget)…but I LOVE it! It’s so much fun picking out little things and seeing his face when he opens it on Christmas.

At any rate, yes, we’d like to buy a kitchen for Charlie but that will have to wait…we’ll pool money and put it aside and buy it when we have a house to put it in. We still need a “Santa”, however, especially since this is the first year she’ll wake up in her own bed. I ran across this plush penguin on Amazon.com. It came yesterday, and I think it might be too difficult to wrap, so…can you just see her face when she sees this??

My Big Girl

I really have to brag on Charlie today. After last week’s ballet class, the teacher Ms. Leslie, announced that all of the mommies would need to sit in the waiting room the following week so the girls wouldn’t be distracted. I thought that this would be a tremendous failure. Charlie has been so clingy in class that I assumed there was no way she would ever participate in class if I wasn’t sitting in there.

Boy, was I wrong! This morning I set her down next to her friend Emilyn and did a disappearing act…and found that as long as she couldn’t make eye contact with me through the glass (I ended up sitting near the wall and Ms. Kim was my look-out) she was great! She actually participated (as much as any 2 year old would) and had a smile on her face the whole time. It was amazing!! I was a little concerned about what would happen if Charlie couldn’t keep her hands to herself (a.k.a. if she smacked some other little girl) but then thought about preschool, etc. and figured that if someone chooses to teach 2 year olds they must be prepared to deal with discipline, acting out, etc., right? I mean, at some point, I have to trust that those “teaching” her know what they’re doing, don’t I?Ms. Leslie handed out dum-dum’s wrapped in paper towels (made to look like ghosts) at the end of class, and you should have seen the look on her face when she emerged with all the other girlies. So proud of herself, she broke into a huge smile, yelled “Mommy, ballet!” and ran over to me, sucker in hand. What a big girl!! Guess you just need to get out of the way and “give them room”, as my friend Kathryn so wisely said.

Allie

This cat is my nemesis.

No, seriously. She is. Of course, I love her, and she’s part of our family, but some days I just want to ship her off to the nearest pound. Vann loves her. They are quite the pair…and she really only has love for him. They like to bond together by nestling in on the couch. It’s really heartwarming.

What is not heartwarming, is what a pill she is. I have to shut her out of the office during Charlie’s naptime because she will either A. knock things off the desk, B. walk back and forth on the desk, swishing her tail in your mouth (and lipgloss, on days that I actually make an effort), or c. gnaw on the mess of computer cords under the desk. She can’t just be low-key like Siena and lay in my lap, or perch somewhere hoping for a scratch on the ear.

Here’s the other thing: she’s the scratcher around here. For some reason, Siena limits hers to the magazine rack and an old clothes hamper in our bedroom. Allie loves our new chair. So much so, that I have shrouded it in afghans TRYING to get her to just. leave. it. alone. The common scenario: She crouches in the corner of the room, pointing her beady little eyes at me. She saunters by the chair, and just when I think she might just pass it by, she pounces on it, digging her claws deep inside the microsuede and freezes, all the while knowing I’m up on my feet and throwing the nearest pillow/stuffed animal/shoe at her.

This picture is of Allie laying in the laundry basket that was full of CLEAN clothes yesterday. You might wonder WHY our pantry is a catch-all for everything and I can’t leave anything out in the open…well, she and Charlie, they are a team, and they seek to drive me bananas.

Now, Siena…there’s nothing you can say that’s negative about that little peanut. God really broke the mold when they made her. She’s practically perfect in every way.

The Simple Woman’s Daybook

For Today, October 13th…

Outside my window…Brrr! 39 degrees! It’s definitely fall, y’all!!

I am thinking…that I feel anxiety about having two kids. How in the world am I going to do this?

I am thankful for…long weekends.

From the kitchen…hmmm. Am not feeling super-motivated this week. I AM excited because we’ve decided to cater our Thanksgiving meal to make it easier on everybody. Did some research yesterday, and Whole Foods actually has a pretty good price for a meal for 8 people, fixin’s and all. And you know it will be delish! Mimi is still going to make her famous sweet potatoes, with my fave, marshmallow topping!!

I am wearing…my pj’s, which is also what I wore all day yesterday!

I am creating…sadly, just a to-do list.

I am going…to a great pumpkin patch on Friday with my mom’s group! Yay, can’t wait!

I am reading…still nada.

I am hoping for…a wonderful Christmas.

Around the house…it’s looking better. I cleaned out our pantry yesterday, which you know is our “catch-all” for everything. At least now you can walk inside it. Maybe Mimi can work her magic while she’s here…

A few plans for the rest of the week: Ballet, pumpkin patch, and then a full day on Saturday: breastfeeding class, shopping, and dinner at the Petkus’ house!

Here is a picture I am sharing…Charlie as a pumpkin 2 years ago! Thank goodness for Great Aunt Issy…this outfit she sent was a lifesaver, it was the only thing that would fit our baby girl at the time!!

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