{"id":151,"date":"2010-09-13T15:29:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-13T15:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/almostjuliet.com\/index.php\/2010\/09\/things-im-struggling-with-these-days\/"},"modified":"2018-04-21T17:22:29","modified_gmt":"2018-04-21T17:22:29","slug":"things-im-struggling-with-these-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/almostjuliet.com\/index.php\/2010\/09\/things-im-struggling-with-these-days\/","title":{"rendered":"Things I&#8217;m Struggling With These Days&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;the fact that it&#8217;s 90 degrees and it&#8217;s the middle of September. I am mourning the loss of the Chicago fall season. My favorite time of year by far, normally I would be doning a blazer or jacket or hoodie every time we leave the house. I&#8217;m also missing running down to Cafe Selmarie in my pj&#8217;s and Baylor sweatshirt to grab coffee and a treat &#8211; a tradition on Saturday mornings.<\/p>\n<p>I realize that in February I will be dancing a jig and celebrating the fact that we will have a real spring and how nice that will be compared to the bitterness of the Chicago winters&#8230;but I am completely over summer and the heat and would much rather stay inside where it&#8217;s air-conditioned and comfortable. I threw on a sweatshirt this morning and Vann looked at me like I was crazy. A girl can pretend, right?<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;poop. There. I said it. After 6 weeks of potty training, Charlie really is doing great with #1. We&#8217;ve had a few accidents &#8211; mostly when we both get busy doing something and I forget to keep track of when she went last.<\/p>\n<p>#2 however &#8211; she has started pooping in her panties and sometimes I think she&#8217;s doing it on purpose. I&#8217;ll ask her if she needs to go &#8211; &#8220;No, I not!&#8221; &#8211; and then 5 minutes later, she&#8217;s announcing &#8220;I pooping now!&#8221; and I&#8217;m racing her into the bathroom and plugging my nose with a clothespin. I&#8217;m sorry, having poop restricted to a diaper is one thing &#8211; having to clean it off a 3 year old bottom, legs, clothing, etc. is another thing entirely. And I find it utterly disgusting. Sorry. Am I supposed to just grin and bear it? I&#8217;m not doing a very good job of it then.<\/p>\n<p>I think what is the hardest for me is the smugness after the job has been done. The attitude. I don&#8217;t know if she&#8217;s doing it for attention (I know #2 takes longer to master, etc. so I&#8217;m not trying to be unsympathetic) but sometimes I swear she knows she&#8217;s about to do it and just doesn&#8217;t want to tell me. So, those are the times where I&#8217;ve turned her hiney red (as Ms. Marla would say).<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;Baby Ella&#8217;s naptimes. We are a firm Babywise and Cry it Out family. We are also a firm Mommy needs a Break family. These days Baby Ella is having a very difficult time settling down for naps&#8230;so I end up checking on her (so she doesn&#8217;t stick her chubby legs through the crib slats, which she&#8217;s done a handful of times) and standing outside her door listening to her cry and ultimately either going downstairs out of earshot or turning off the monitor. I know, Bad Mommy, you&#8217;re probably thinking. Hey, Happy Mommy equals Happy Family!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;the fact that it&#8217;s 90 degrees and it&#8217;s the middle of September. I am mourning the loss of the Chicago fall season. My favorite time of year by far, normally I would be doning a blazer or jacket or hoodie every time we leave the house. 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